Does your Love Bank have a negative balance?
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We all have a "Love Bank" and those we
know have accounts in it. When people do
things that make us feel good, "love
units" are deposited, and when they do
things that make us feel bad, love units
are withdrawn. We are emotionally
attracted to people with large balances.
We call those feelings, respectively,
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How can a couple
keep their Love Bank balances high
enough to experience romantic love?
Couples deposit love units by meeting
each other's most important emotional
needs. Couples withdraw love units by
demonstrating habits that cause the
other to be unhappy. |
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What is
your Most Important Emotional Need? |
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An emotional need is a craving that when
satisfied, leaves you with a feeling of
happiness and contentment and when
unsatisfied, leaves you with a feeling
of unhappiness and frustration. Whenever
a husband and wife desire to improve
their marriage, they need to first
identify their most important emotional
needs, what each of them can do for each
other that will make them happiest and
most contented. Then they must learn to
meet those emotional needs. If they
learn to do it, they begin depositing
love units and eventually they are in
love with each other again.
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Can your
marriage change from incompatible to
irresistible? |
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The quickest cure for incompatibility
and fastest road to becoming
irresistible lies in meeting each
other's most important emotional needs.
In the Dynamic Marriage class,
married couples learn how to make their
marriage a full-time priority. These
couples not only put out the effort,
they put the effort in the right places.
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The Dynamic Marriage class
challenges and empowers couples to
transform every aspect of their
marriage. This powerful program helps
committed couples sustain a happy,
fulfilling relationship that grows
stronger each year. |
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What will this class do for you? |
- If your
marriage is great, this class takes
you both to a more intimate level.
- If your
marriage is mediocre, do not settle
for less than falling in love all
over again.
- If you
are about to get married, learn how
to sustain romantic love before you
even hit the "bumps in the road."
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How do you enroll? |
By now, you can answer the question, "Do
I want marital intimacy and ecstasy?" If
you do, enroll in this dynamic class.
There is a limit of 12 couples per
class.
Dates:
Month of September 2008 (2 1/2
hour sessions per week / Eight weeks)
Time:
TBA
Location:
Eastside Church of Christ
149 Martin Luther King Blvd, Pontiac,
MI 48342
Contact:
Hope Scruggs at: 586-219-3406
To register or for additional
information e-mail, Hope Scruggs at:
scruggsh6@yahoo.com
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